you shouldnt feel pressured to tell your therapist anything until youre ready to i didnt tell my therapist i struggled with samesex desires until we were about 5 months into therapy i explained to him that i had to make sure that i was able to trust him.
Span classnews_dtjul 24 2010spannbsp018332tell your therapist that you feel that a lot of your problems you think come from the fact that you are gay and you felt this need to tell her so she can help you sandy k 183 8 years ago 0.
If you have trouble vocalising things perhaps tell your therapist that and suggest that youd like to write something down you could then hand them a note and after the initial reveal perhaps more discussion will be easier.
Span classnews_dtjul 31 2017spannbsp018332expert reviewed how to find a supportive therapist if you are lesbian gay bisexual or transgender three parts finding a therapist selecting your therapist avoiding bad matches community qampa some lgbt people have very straightforward social experiences perhaps even dating their high schools star.
Span classnews_dtaug 10 2018spannbsp018332edit article how to know if you are gay three parts knowing what doesnt make you gay figuring out if you are gay being proud of and comfortable with being gay community qampa determining your sexual orientation can be a confusing experience but only you can truly determine it on your own terms.
The issue i am asking advice on is thisi have been married for just over five yearsand i am gay i have never had a encounter with another manbut i just know i am i still love my wifebut i.
Span classnews_dtapr 07 2011spannbsp018332if you cant be honest enough with a therapist to tell them that you are gay there is no point in even going to therapy precisely because you asked this question it should be one of the first things you tell your therapist.